And, if it happens to provide external stimulation as well,
The 17 Best Remote Control Vibrators for Discreet & Long Distance Fun
The Motorbunny unit looks like a black keg cut in half, which is then placed on your floor. It has electrical outlets and a controller, all indicating that this is a powerful machine. For the ultimate grinding experience, get a heavy-duty, rideable vibrator like this one. There’s an assortment of attachments available, in addition to the two that are included with the base unit—so, contrary to its name, anyone can enjoy the Cowgirl, regardless of their gender or anatomy. It’s not the most convenient toy, what with being quite heavy and needing to plug into an outlet, but it’s one of the most luxurious grindable toys on the market.
In addition to 14 speed and intensity settings, ‘climax control’ allows users to play around with the depth of suction, so you’re bound to find something that works for you. Before you purchase a sex toy, check that it’s body-safe (like all of our picks are). Single-use sex toys are “the most underrated option for first-time sex-toy owners,” according to one SELF sexual wellness writer.
We’ve evaluated battery life by cycling the devices on and off for 20 minutes until they died, assessed overheating by letting them run for extended periods, and tested the function of waterproof vibrators. If you find using sex toys during intercourse a little clunky or distracting, this is the vibrator for you. The arms of this little device are meant to tuck into your labia (you read that right), so that all you have to focus on is you and your partner. It can also be used alone but might benefit from some kind of pressure from a pillow or mattress. Despite being cute and compact, bullet vibrators are much-loved for the super-sized sensations they provide, as well as their stealth capabilities.
Or, you can angle the arms to provide more pinpointed stimulation wherever you want it. One SELF editor called the compact Maude Vibe the “sex toy I didn’t know I needed.” Its slim, elongated body lets you use it like an extension of your finger, with a tapered tip that targets the clit. This simple, whisper-quiet vibe has three intensities that ramp up from fluttery to “eye-poppingly powerful,” she says. That original vibe had a long body that could enter the vagina, with rabbit “ears” that stimulated the clit. Some rabbit vibes today have preserved this signature style—because if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it. Others have replaced the “ears” with shorter arms that curve towards the clit or suction mechanisms.
The Gigi 2 is waterproof and USB rechargeable and has a run time of up to four hours. Bullet vibrators are generally smaller than rabbit vibrators or wands, which means they are often cheaper and easier to take with you and can be great sex toys for beginners. As always use plenty and lube and remember, bullet vibrators are only for external stimulation. If you are looking for internal stimulation , checkout our list of G-spot vibrators further down on this list. One of our favorite parts of having a body is exploring it, and even if you already know what you like, there’s always room to experiment.
Whether you’re looking for a vibrator that can blend seamlessly with the decor of your bedroom or are just looking for a more out-of-the-ordinary device for your collection—you have options. The Crave Vesper is both of those things, with its long, sleek body that has multiple settings (including gentle and oscillating) for external use. “In addition to being easy-to-use, Vesper provides an aesthetic jewelry experience,” says Ti Chang, VP of Design and co-founder of Crave. If you like to engage in a little backdoor action, check out this beginner-friendly butt plug designed specifically for people with vulvas. It’s slim with an asymmetric base that won’t block the vaginal opening, and the curved tulip shape guides penises or toys toward the G-spot. Some are curved or have bulbous ends for G-spot stimulation, like the Lovehoney G-Slim G-Spot Vibrator ($20, Lovehoney).
With all of its versatility, don’t be surprised if the Lelo Gigi 2 quickly becomes your new fave. This high-end nearly silent vibrator was crafted to target the G-spot with eight hush-hush vibrational patterns and a comfortable arc design. However, it can also be used externally to deliver those tantalizing vibes wherever you desire. As a bonus, it’s also fully waterproof and can operate for up to two hours on a single charge. And, if it happens to provide external stimulation as well, all the better. Womanizer typically employs medical-grade silicone and/or ABS plastic, and the Enhance is no different.
It uses “WaveMotion technology” that allows the larger arm of the Ina Wave 2 to curl in the same way human fingers making a “come hither” gesture do. That finger-like motion stimulates the G-spot vibrators, while the external arm acts as a clitoral stimulator. “The Magic Wand is still our No. 1 seller. We carry other wands, but it’s still the best. It has a reputation like no other,” says Amrich. The $70 model has a classic design that provides powerful vibration and must be plugged in while in use, while the newer, rechargeable model is $150.
Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship, a camgirl, or just a fan of public play, it can be hard to come up with new ways to keep things hot at a distance.
While it’s a similar size as many bullet vibrators, at 3.5 inches long, it also has the amped-up power of a wand. I love the sunshine yellow color and discreet charging case—you could almost mistake it for a pair of sunglasses in your bag. The design means that no matter which one you choose, insertion is made easy by the tapered shape and soft, sleek silicone.
